I want you to be completely honest with yourself right now. When your partner turns you down for intimacy, what is the very first thought that pops into your head?
If you are like 99% of the couples I work with in my clinic, your brain immediately tells you a painful story: "I’m not attractive anymore. They don’t love me. I must be doing something wrong."
As a double board-certified psychiatrist, I want to save you a lot of heartbreak today: their lack of sex drive almost never has to do with how you look.
Human sexuality isn't a light switch; it’s a complicated biological engine. When that engine breaks down, the body physically shuts off the desire for sex.
Today, we are doing a relationship audit. I am going to walk you through the 7 hidden biological and psychological reasons your partner doesn't want sex. As you read through these, I want you to keep a mental checklist and see which one sounds like your relationship.
Let’s look under the hood.